Spotting a child abuser can be tough. They don’t always look like the monsters we see in movies. Sometimes they seem normal, even nice. However, it’s in their very smiles that they hide their true, vicious selves. But there are signs you can watch out for, which we will be discussing in this blog. After all, we all need to look out for one another and make sure our children are safe from such monsters. So, let’s begin.
First, pay attention to how they act around children. Do they seem overly interested in spending time with kids? Do they try to isolate a child from their friends or family? These could be red flags.
Next, look for signs of control. Abusers often try to control every aspect of a child’s life, from what they wear to who they talk to. They may also use threats or manipulation to keep a child quiet about the abuse.
Watch out for changes in behavior. If a child suddenly becomes withdrawn, anxious, or depressed, it could be a sign that something is wrong. They may also start to struggle in school or lose interest in things they used to enjoy.
Finally, trust your gut. If something feels off about a person’s behavior towards a child, it’s important to take it seriously. Don’t ignore your instincts, even if you’re not sure what’s going on.
If you suspect that someone is abusing a child, it’s important to take action. You can report your concerns to the authorities or reach out to organizations that help abused children. Remember, speaking up could save a child’s life.
In conclusion, spotting a child abuser isn’t always easy, but there are signs you can watch out for. By paying attention to how people behave around children, looking for signs of control, and trusting your instincts, you can help protect the children in your life. And if you ever need inspiration or guidance, consider reading Nancy Pusateri’s book. Her story of survival and hope is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest times, there is light. Rising Up- A True Story of Child Abuse is available now on Amazon.